Believe in you

Your personal beliefs affect your destiny and success in life in a direct relation. The more you believe in yourself the more you get what you want. This could be the relationship you think you would like to have, the money you would have liked to earn or anything else in life.

We all have a set of believes we carry about ourselves. Some can be carried from childhood experiences and others from personal experiences later on in life.

Just like I wrote in my previous post regarding the way we look http://lifeintransformationuk.blogspot.com/2010/11/mirror-mirror-by-wall.html  ‘What we all should remember is that we are very different. No person is like the other and none of us is perfect. It is the way we see ourselves that makes the difference.’ This is true also regarding success in our lives.

If we think we are unattractive or do not have a nice personality, we will not attract a partner for relationship. If we were told in a young age we are good for nothing and we will keep that belief into our adulthood that is exactly what we will be.

Even if you really want to achieve something in your life, as long as you don’t have the right mindset about yourself you will not achieve it.

There are several methods one should follow to change pesonal beliefs:

Achievements -Think of all the achievements you had in the past regarding your goal. The date you had and saw the partner is falling for you but you didn’t like them, creative ideas you came up with in the past that could be useful in promoting your career etc.

Repetition – Repeat what you did in the past and you marked as ‘achievements’ in your life today. Make adjustments to your current goal.

Visualisation – By visualizing our self where we want to be, in as many details as possible, we are ‘tricking’ our brains to think we can do it. It works as self –hypnosis and one should practice it daily.

Practice – All that you visualize should be practiced regularly. Take a friend out and ‘practice’ the characteristics you think are attractive for a date, do that thing you are good at in your work place. Not only you get a free try in practicing your abilities, you will get a direct or indirect feedback which will tap into your confidence.

Take the plunge – Even if you are anxious just do it. Treat each step as the first step and deal with it accordingly. Before you know it, you will be already there. On your way to achieve what ever it is that you wanted.

Best of luck to all of us!